A Monthly Coaching Circle for Building a Meaningful Life Alongside Grief
£25 per workshop
Who this group is for
This group is for people who have experienced bereavement and want support in thinking about life beyond loss.
Many people find that, after the initial shock and intensity of grief, there comes a time when they begin to think about how to start integrating back into their life and how to live alongside grief. Many questions may come up about what the future looks like and how to live it. Relationships may have changed, identity and role may have been impacted, and the question arises, what do I do next and how?
This group may be particularly helpful if you feel stuck, disconnected from yourself, uncertain about the future or simply in need of space to reflect on where you are and where you want to go next.
The focus is not on leaving grief behind. The focus is on learning how to build a meaningful life while carrying it.
What this group is not
This group is not therapy, and it is not a crisis support service.
While grief will naturally be part of our conversations, the group is not primarily focused on emotional processing or exploring the circumstances of a death. There are many excellent community groups that offer that.
The focus here is different. Grief affects far more than our emotions. It can change our identity, our confidence, our priorities, our relationships and our sense of purpose. This group focuses on those wider questions and provides an opportunity to explore how we want to live alongside grief rather than simply survive it.
Participants are welcome to share personal experiences, but the emphasis is on reflection, learning, discussion and future-focused coaching conversations.
Why a grief coaching circle?
When people think about grief support, they often think about coping with difficult emotions. While that is important, grief can also raise questions that emotional support alone does not always answer.
Many bereaved people find themselves wondering who they are now that life has changed. The future they imagined may no longer exist. Their priorities may have shifted. Relationships may feel different. Things that once felt important may no longer seem to matter in the same way.
Coaching provides a space to explore these questions thoughtfully and intentionally. Rather than focusing on fixing grief, coaching encourages us to reflect on what is important, what we need, what we want to create and how we want to move forward.
This group combines grief awareness, reflective practice, coaching conversations and shared wisdom from others who are navigating similar challenges.
What Happens Each Month
Each session lasts two hours and follows a similar structure while exploring a different monthly theme.
We begin with a gentle grounding or orienting practice to help participants arrive and settle into the space. Grief can leave us feeling pulled in many directions, and this opening practice provides an opportunity to slow down and become present.
Participants are then invited to check in with the group. This creates an opportunity to connect with others and be heard before the evening's theme is introduced.
Each month includes a short teaching or reflection connected to the theme. Drawing on grief theory, coaching approaches and lived experience, this section introduces ideas and questions that participants can explore in relation to their own lives.
Participants are then guided through a coaching and reflective activity designed to deepen understanding of the topic and relate it to their lives. Depending on the theme, this may involve journalling, mindful photography, creative exercises, values exploration, storytelling, coaching questions or other reflective practices. The focus is not on finding the right answer but on developing insight, awareness and clarity.
A significant part of the session is devoted to the sharing circle. Participants are invited to share reflections, experiences and discoveries from the activity while learning from the experiences of others. Listening is considered just as valuable as speaking, and there is never any pressure to contribute more than feels comfortable.
The session closes with a simple ritual, grounding practice or reflective exercise connected to the theme. This provides an opportunity to acknowledge what has been explored, gather any insights from the evening and return to everyday life with intention.
The group is designed as a drop-in programme, meaning you do not need to attend every month. Each session stands alone while contributing to a broader exploration of remembrance, meaning, identity, purpose and life after loss.
Each session is designed to support both reflection and action, helping you make sense of where you are while considering where you want to go.
Groups are held on Zoom.
This group may help if you are thinking
- "I know I need to keep living, but I am not sure what that means anymore."
- "I want to think about my future without pretending the loss did not happen."
- "I feel stuck and need space to reflect."
- "I want conversations about more than coping."
- "I want support building a life that includes grief rather than revolves around it."
- "I know I need to keep living, but I am not sure what that looks like now."
- "I feel like I have changed and I do not know who I am anymore."
- "I want to talk about more than the death itself."
- "I want support exploring what matters now."
- "I want to find purpose, direction and connection again."
Monthly themes
- Thursday 10 September 2026 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Strengths Can I Build On?
Loss often reveals strengths we never realised we had. At the same time, grief can leave us doubting ourselves and focusing on what feels difficult. This session explores the qualities, skills and resources participants already possess and how these strengths can support future growth. Together, we will consider what strengths we want to develop further and how they can help us navigate the next chapter of life.
- Thursday 8 October 2026 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Am I Carrying Forward?
Every significant relationship leaves something behind. We carry lessons, values, memories, perspectives and experiences that continue to shape us. This session explores what participants want to take forward into the future, both from the people they have loved and from the challenges they have faced. We will also reflect on what we may be ready to set down.
- Thursday 12 November 2026 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Future Am I Creating?
Grief can make it difficult to imagine the future. Plans may have changed and certainty may feel harder to find. This session focuses on possibility rather than prediction. Together, we will explore hopes, goals, aspirations and the kind of life participants want to create. The emphasis is not on having all the answers but on identifying meaningful directions for the future.
- Thursday 10 December 2026 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Is My Next Step?
As the year draws to a close, this session provides an opportunity to reflect on what has been learned and what feels important moving forward. Rather than focusing on grand resolutions, participants will be invited to consider the next small but meaningful step they want to take. Together, we will look back on the journey so far and look ahead to what comes next.
- Thursday 14 January 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
Who Am I Becoming?
Grief often changes our identity. Roles shift, priorities change and parts of ourselves that once felt certain can suddenly feel unfamiliar. While much attention is often given to who we were before the loss, this session focuses on who we are becoming now. Together, we will explore how grief has shaped us, what parts of ourselves we want to nurture and what kind of person we want to continue growing into.
- Thursday 11 February 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Matters Most?
Loss has a way of clarifying what is important. Things that once seemed urgent may no longer hold the same significance, while other areas of life become more meaningful. This session explores values, priorities and the people, experiences and activities that deserve our time and energy. Participants will be invited to reflect on what matters most now and how they want to align their lives with those priorities.
- Thursday 11 March 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Do I Need More Of?
Many people spend so much energy coping with grief that they rarely stop to consider what they need in order to thrive. This session focuses on identifying what is missing, whether that is connection, rest, purpose, creativity, adventure, structure or support. Together, we will explore what helps us feel more fully alive and what practical steps we can take to bring more of those things into our lives.
- Thursday 8 April 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Needs to Change?
Grief often highlights aspects of life that are no longer working. This might involve habits, relationships, commitments, expectations or ways of thinking. Change can feel uncomfortable, but it can also create opportunities for growth and renewal. This session explores what may need to shift in order to support the life you want to build moving forward.
- Thursday 13 May 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Am I Ready to Say Yes To?
After loss, many people become understandably cautious. Grief can make it difficult to take risks, try new things or imagine new possibilities. This session explores opportunities, experiences and aspirations that may be emerging. Together, we will consider what feels meaningful, what feels possible and what we may be ready to welcome into our lives.
- Thursday 10 June 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
Who Am I Walking With?
Relationships often change after bereavement. Some people become closer, while others drift away. This session focuses on the relationships that support us as we move through life. We will explore connection, belonging, community and the people we want beside us as we continue forward. Participants will be invited to reflect on what healthy support looks like and how they can cultivate more of it.
- Thursday 8 July 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
What Gives My Life Meaning?
Questions about meaning often emerge after significant loss. Things that once felt important may no longer feel enough, while new sources of purpose begin to appear. This session explores what gives life meaning now, whether through relationships, creativity, contribution, learning, spirituality, service or personal growth. Together, we will reflect on what helps life feel worthwhile and fulfilling.
- Thursday 12 August 2027 (6:45pm–8:45pm)
How Do I Create More Joy?
Many grieving people struggle with feelings of guilt when moments of happiness return. Yet joy and grief can exist alongside one another. This session explores the role of pleasure, enjoyment, creativity, fun and gratitude within a grieving life. Participants will be encouraged to identify what brings genuine enjoyment and consider how to create more space for those experiences.
Please email me for more information or upcoming dates.